Baby Shower Etiquette for Everyone
Baby showers have been very popular and are one tradition
that almost all mothers-to-be from almost all countries
practice. Since baby shower is not only gift giving but also a
social event. It is for this reason that some etiquette should
be observed. These etiquettes may vary depending on your
country but the following is the most common ones.
1. The best time to hold a baby shower is sometime before the
birth. Usually, baby showers are held a month or two before the
birth of the baby. Recently, some people practice holding the
baby shower a month or two after the birth. Holding the party
before the birth of the bay will give time for the mother to
buy the items that were not given as gifts during the baby
shower.
2. Traditionally, a close friend of the new mom hosts the baby
party. Relatives and co-workers can also host the event.
3. Baby showers are not only for first-born babies but also for
subsequent babies. Every pregnancy is a reason to celebrate, so
there is nothing wrong to throw a baby shower to subsequent
babies.
4. It is just proper to give gifts that are related to babies.
Neutral colors can be picked for gifts so that it will relate
to either a boy or girl. It is best to choose gifts that can be
useful and something that a baby may need everyday like
diapers, feeding bottles, bibs and baby blankets.
5. For the host, it is okay to have games to break the ice but
it is not that required. Conversations, food and drinks are the
thing that should be considered. It would also be a nice idea
to have a book where the guests can write on their notes and
messages to the new mom.
6. Usually, twenty people or more are invited but this will
also depend on the number of people that can be accommodated in
the venue. Sometimes, they hold a small number before the birth
and larger group after the baby is born.
7. A baby shower is usually held during weekend since that is
the most convenient day for the visitors and would normally
last two to three hours. The time may be extended especially if
everything is doing well.
8. The person hosting should shoulder the expenses on food and
other things.
9. Ideally, the baby shower is held at the home of the person
hosting the party. The new mom would be informed since a
pregnant woman is not fit for surprises.
10. It is not necessary to have a special invitation printed.
The host can buy stationeries or greeting cards with baby
themes in bookstores. It will also be a good idea to have the
invitations sent at least three weeks before the party. This
will give enough time for guests to RSVP. Do not forget to
include the directions.
11. A theme for the party is not that necessary but this adds
life to a party. Wearing costumes and decorating the venue
gives a happy and celebrating atmosphere.
12. It is only proper to welcome guests when they come and
thank them when they leave. The host should always be present
during the party and should be the one attending at the
guests.
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